Friday, October 30, 2009

Choosing goodbye

They say, Love is best expressed when we’re with our loved ones and is usually best appreciated when we get to spend time with them. Some people just make us feel important and be needed.Love help us find our purpose in life and it gives us a sense of worth. No wonder the bible says "God is Love". It is by this love that God shed His blood for us…

Indeed Love is essential in any relationship but LIFE is filled with goodbye’s as well.It might be temporary or permanent but in any relationship —whether with family, friends or lovers, the word "goodbye" is dreadful to hear.

"Goodbye" to those painful incidents in life , it gives an empty feeling deep down. And saying those words, always brings that feeling of loss.I guess though we already know that saying goodbye is sometimes bound to be part in any relationship, we try to think of it as a defeat. Goodbyes partly reflect our failure to sustain a relationship. Oftentimes we never intended to do it but sometimes it is inevitable. We decide to part ways(permanent or temporal) because it is for our own good.I was reminded by an advice given to me during a tough times in my life. If a certain situation, a person or a thing hinders you to grow and instead drag you down then  perhaps it is an obvious sign that "maybe" it is not in accordance to His will.It was an eye-opener for me and I chose to end it up.


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